Trusting Your Body
Week 35
Audio player: Trusting Your Body
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- Duration:
- 12 min
- Stage:
- Pregnancy · Week 35
- Best for:
- Building calm confidence toward birth
How to practise
In the third trimester, quiet confidence in yourself and your support, with no promises about outcome can show up quietly or all at once. This guided meditation makes room for the feeling without turning it into a lesson you are meant to pass.
This practice builds a quiet, grounded confidence, not by promising a particular kind of birth, but by trusting your capacity to cope, to adapt, and to be supported. It includes a gentle rehearsal of staying calm and feeling held, and it holds every path, straightforward or complicated, with or without help, as equally valid. Needing support is never a failing.
Find a position that supports you (seated or lying down). Press play and let the guidance move at its own pace. There is no correct way to feel, and nothing to visualize on demand.
This episode is written for week 35. It fits best building calm confidence toward birth, though you can return whenever the week feels heavy or unfamiliar.
Each week in the series stands alone. Listeners often join at their current week and circle back later; the arc rewards continuity, but nothing here assumes you have been listening since week one.
Full transcript
Welcome to Week Thirty-Five.
Today is about confidence. But not the kind that promises birth will go a certain way, because no one can promise that, and births unfold in all sorts of ways. The confidence we are building is steadier than that. It is trust in yourself to meet whatever comes, trust in your ability to cope and adapt, and trust in the people who will be there to help you.
Whatever your birth turns out to be, straightforward or complicated, with or without help, it is yours, and it is not a test you can fail. Let's begin.
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Let's begin by letting your body settle.
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Find a position that supports you. Let the surface beneath you take your weight.
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Let your eyes close, or rest them softly open.
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Take one slow breath in.
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And a long breath out.
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Let's steady the breath together. In… one… … two… … three… … four…
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And out, longer. Out… one… … two… … three… … four… … five… … six…
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Again, in your own time.
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Let the counting go.
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Let's gently rehearse not a particular birth, but a way of being in it. The breath you are using right now, slow and steady, is something you can return to in any moment, in any kind of birth. It goes with you everywhere.
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Imagine a moment of intensity arriving, like a wave building. You do not have to fight the wave or outrun it. You can meet it the way you are breathing now: slow out-breath, soft shoulders, letting it rise and crest and pass, knowing another breath is always coming after it.
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And imagine, around you, the people who will be there. A midwife. Perhaps a partner or someone you love. Hands to hold, voices to steady you, skill and care surrounding you. You will not be doing this in isolation. Picture being held, in whatever way feels real to you.
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Whatever turns your birth takes, and it may take turns no one can predict, you can keep coming back to this. The breath. The support around you. Your own steady center, which does not depend on everything going to plan.
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If you need help during your birth, and many people do, that is not your body failing. That is care doing exactly what it is there for. A birth with support, with pain relief, with intervention, with surgery if that is what is needed, is still your birth, and still something you met with courage.
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So the trust we are building is not trust that it will be easy or perfect. It is trust that you can meet it, however it comes, and that you will not be alone when you do.
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Now, three quiet truths. Let each one land in the body.
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The first. I can trust myself to meet whatever my birth turns out to be.
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Notice where you feel that, if anywhere.
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The second. I am capable, and I will be supported.
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Let it settle.
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And the last. However I birth, I am not failing.
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You do not have to be certain. Just let these be true.
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Stay a little longer, breathing your steady breath, the one that will go with you.
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And when you are ready, begin to come back. Feel your weight. Feel your hands.
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Let your breath rejoin your day.
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Open your eyes slowly, if they were closed.
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And carry this quiet confidence gently with you.
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That is the end of this week's practice.
Confidence is not certainty, and you do not have to control how your birth goes to be ready for it. However it unfolds, including with help or intervention, your care team is there to keep you and your baby safe, and that is exactly what they are for. Needing support is never a failing. It is part of how birth often works.
We will meet again next week.
FAQ
- When should I listen to Week 35?
- This practice is designed for building calm confidence toward birth, though you can return any time during pregnancy.
- Is this meditation safe during pregnancy?
- Yes. This is gentle guided practice with no breath-holding or physical exertion. Listen in any comfortable position. If a practice increases distress rather than easing it, stop and speak with your midwife, GP, or a mental health professional.
- Do I need the app to listen?
- No. Press play on this page for the full guided audio and transcript. The My Maternal Mind app adds offline caching, ambient sound mixing, and a daily meditation written for your current week.
Related practice
- Meeting the Fear, Week 34
- Getting Ready, Week 36
- Read the full guide
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This episode is one of fifty-one in the Pregnancy Weeks series, with ambient sound mixing, streak tracking, and a daily meditation written for your current week.
My Maternal Mind supports your wellbeing during pregnancy and birth preparation. It does not replace medical advice, midwifery care, or mental health treatment. Discuss your birth plan and any concerns with your care team.
Last reviewed: 2026-06-30